My wife just told me about a news story where two fifth-grade boys are going to stand trial in juvenile court for conspiring to stab a fellow female classmate to death. These two kids had an elaborate, seven-step plan devised to lure the girl away from the school and stab her to death, and one of the boys was to be ready with a gun to stop anyone who tried to interfere. Why?
Because the girl they targeted had been mean to them in the past.
What the HELL is going on with our kids these days?
It starts with kids not knowing how to handle conflict anymore. For several years the trend has been everybody wins and nobody loses. When kids enter into sports or academic competitions at an early age there are no losers. Everyone gets to win. No one can have their feelings hurt anymore. This is pure communistic behavior as far as I’m concerned. Everyone has to be the same, no one can excel and the rewards go to everyone instead of those who deserve them.